Q + A
Question
What is the dress code?
Answer
For our celebration we kindly ask guests to join us in formal evening attire, black tie optional, to help make the night feel extra special. For the ladies we suggest floor-length dresses and for the men a tuxedo or suit. As our ceremony will be held in a church, we ask guests to ensure their attire is respectful for the setting.
Question
When should I rsvp by?
Answer
We ask that you please RSVP before October 31, 2026. If you are unable to attend, please still complete the RSVP as unable to attend so we can plan accordingly. If you do not RSVP within the time frame, unfortunately we will not include you in our final guest count. Please reach out to us if you need help or need to change your RSVP at any point before the deadline.
Question
Do I get a plus one?
Answer
We can only accommodate those formally invited. If you received a plus one, it will be listed on your invitation and shown when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding.
Question
Are children invited?
Answer
We love your little ones, but we are only able to include guests specifically listed on the invitation. We are making exceptions for children of immediate family and close friends. Thank you so much for understanding.
Question
Are the ceremony and reception held in different locations?
Answer
Yes. Our ceremony will be held at St. John's Catholic Church in Encinitas. Following the ceremony, cocktail hour, dinner and dancing will be held at our venue, The Secret Garden, in Rancho Santa Fe.
Question
Is the venue indoor or outdoor?
Answer
Cocktail hour will be held outdoors, while dinner and dancing will take place indoors. Guests are welcome to step outside throughout the evening. Please keep in mind that winter nights can be chilly, so bring anything you need to stay warm and comfortable.
Question
Is there parking at the ceremony and reception?
Answer
Yes! Both the church and the venue offer dedicated parking for guests. You’re also welcome to leave your car overnight at the venue if needed. We kindly encourage families to carpool or rideshare to help ensure safe and easy travel between locations.