FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP, at the latest, by November 30, 2025.

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Are you registered? Where?

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We do not expect gifts, we're just happy for you to come. But if you really want to give us something, you can contribute to our Newly Wed Fund or buy us a Zola Gift Cart. You can find both on the registry page. We appreciate any contribution.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive at the ceremony at least 15-20 minutes early.

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Is there a dress code?

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The dress code for the rehearsal dinner is Dressy Casual: Men: Khakies or dark jeans. Women: Skirts, casual dresses, or dressy pants or dark jeans with a blouse. The dress code for the wedding ceremony and reception is Semi-Formal: Men: Suit, slacks, or dark jeans with a dress shirt. Women: Dressy skirt (no short skirts, just above the knee is fine) or dress (no white dresses) or dark jeans with a blouse or dress shirt..

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Can I bring a date?

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If you would like to bring a date or a plus one that we don't know about, please let me know by the end of November. You can reach me at 304-541-3995.

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Are kids welcome?

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Yes, by all means, bring them. The hotel has a beautiful swimming pool area. Unlike other hotels, they don't use chlorine, they have salt water pools.

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Is there parking for the rehearsal dinner, ceremony, and reception?

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There is limited parking at the rehearsal dinner venue, but the church across the street allow UUC event parking. The hotel where we are having the wedding ceremony and reception does have plenty of parking.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We’d love for you to be fully present—our photographer’s got it covered. But prior to the ceremony and once the party starts, snap away!

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Will there be an open bar?

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No. We want this to be a sober event and we don't want to be a contributing factor for anyone who might have issues with alcohol, but the hotel does have a bar.

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Will there be cake?

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Yes—and it’s worth saving room for. We’ve taste-tested every bite (for science, of course).

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Will there be dancing?

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Yes! And if you’ve got signature moves, now’s your moment. We’ll be watching (and cheering).

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Will there be snacks at midnight?

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We’re not saying yes… but we’re not saying no. Stay tuned.

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Can I bring my pet?

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As much as we love furry, scaly, and feathery friends, this celebration is for humans only. But feel free to show us pics—we’re suckers for a good pet portrait.

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Will there be a first dance?

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Yes—and we’ve been practicing (sort of). No promises on choreography, but there will be love and maybe a twirl or two.

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What if I show up fashionably late?

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We love your style, but the ceremony starts on time. Arrive early for hugs and happy tears.

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Can I bring my karaoke voice to the reception?

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If the mic finds you, we won’t stop you. Just know we’re judging—but only in the most loving way. Bonus points for love ballads.

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Is there a theme?

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Romance, joy, and celebration. If you show up with those, you’re perfectly on theme.

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Can I request a song?

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Yes! Drop your favorite dance anthem in your RSVP—we’re building a playlist of party magic.

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Can I hug the couple?

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Please do. We’re here for the love—and we can’t wait to celebrate with you.

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Can I wear cowboy boots?

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If they make you feel fabulous, absolutely. Bonus points if they’re dance-floor approved. We'll be wearing cowboy boots too.