Paul & Aubry
Wedding Party
Brittany Patrosso
Maid of Honor
Hi I’m Brittany and I’m Aubry’s wombmate aka her twin sister. I’m not only her twin but her OG best friend! I’ve been there since the very beginning and I can’t believe we’ve finally made it here! Even though I didn’t like Paul when I first met him (oops), he’s my bro now and I couldn’t think of anyone better for my sissy! I’m honored to be the Maid of Honor and I can’t wait to stand beside Aubry and Paul for the most special day of their lives :)
Micah Dingman
Best Man
Hi I'm Micah. Paul is like a brother to me. He is pretty cool, I certainly wound not consider him a fool. I'd like to think I'm the reason Paul has great music taste. He likes to throw up his fist, while drinking a whiskey and Sierra Mist. I used to think he was kind of a thug, but he spends most of his time collecting bug(s). Together we like to fish, Paul is quite the tasty dish. Fun fact, he's the plate twirling champion of China, and Aubry couldn't find someone fine-uh.
Grace Clardy
Bridesmaid
Hello! I'm Grace, and I am a friend of Aubry! I was so blessed to be Aubry's roommate at SpringHill! We quickly became best friends, and family. Aubry is the person I go to for everything knowing she will never judge me, and will always treat me with love and grace. Watching her and Paul's relationship grow from the beginning has been amazing. Through the easy and hard times, they've continued to love each other. I am beyond honored to be a bridesmaid and watch her say "I Do" to the love of her life. I will keep a box of Kleenex with me on that day, so make sure to find me if you need one!
Max Dingman
Groomsman
The sailors say, "Brandy, you're a fine girl" (you're a fine girl) "What a good wife you would be" (such a fine girl) "Yeah, your eyes could steal a sailor from the sea" I'm Paul's brother, super stoked to be a part of the big day and dance the night away with the happy couple!
Kathleen Szczesny
Bridesmaid
Hello! I’m Kathleen and my journey of friendship with Aubry began in the good old days at GVSU. Over the years we’ve traveled the country together on mission trips, sang together on the worship team, & grown together through our dreams to become nurses. Through it all, Aubry has become one of my most cherished friends with one of the most beautiful hearts I’ve ever known; my life has been abundantly blessed by the gift that she is. I’m also super lucky with the 2-for-1 deal of Paul being put into my life too. He is like a big brother to me (you can usually find us trying to put each other in a headlock). They’ve taught me a ton about love & life and my heart overflows with joy for them & their new beginning. I’m so excited to be a part of it and stand by them on the big day :) WOOHOOOO!!
John Dingman
Groomsman
Hi I'm John, Paul's much older brother. Sarah (our much older sister) is a liar. I currently reign as coolest sibling. Pabs has been my little buddy since before he can even remember. When I met Aubry for the first time I knew she needed to stick around! We have too much in common from our love of elephants to our love of my little brother. Looking forward to celebrating with you both in 2020!
Sarah VanderWall
Bridesmaid
I’m Sarah! Paul’s oldest and coolest sibling...and only sister. As the oldest, I left for college when Paul was only 7 so it’s hard for me to believe he’s a grown up and is getting married. I’ve been married to Ben (he’s adorable and is also in the wedding) for 13 years and we have four kids, Kaatje, Eloise, Rory and Ewan and they are all obsessed with Aubry. And think Paul is ok. I enjoy singing and not acting my age. I like Diet Coke, sangria, and good beer. I love the summer but hate being hot. I love big earrings and top knots with headbands. Leggings are my jam and I prefer to wear all black. I like naps and silence. I am so happy to have another sister join our family and to stand by Aubry’s side as she marries Paul. I can’t wait for the wedding to dance the night away!
Ben VanderWall
Groomsman
My name is Ben and I’m married to Paul’s sister, Sarah. I met Paul when he was 7 years old. We played legos and hide and seek together and have been friends ever since. We still like to spend time together, although now it’s golfing and drinking good beer. I also enjoy watching sports, especially football. Go Lions! Go State! I have four kids that keep my wife and me busy. We love having Aubry and Paul because they babysit for us for free as long as we feed them dinner. I’m happy to stand by Paul as he marries Aubry next summer!
Mary Gorsek
Bridesmaid
Hi! I’m Mary! Even though Aubry and I have only known each other since 2018, in those almost 2 years, we have our: Masters in rooftop scouting Masters in swimming pool lounging Masters in coffee shop cramming And even our... Masters in nursing. We wouldn’t have been able to get through it all without a lot of laughs, a few tears and even honing in on our ability to build a Bachelor bracket. I couldn’t have predicted a more perfect pairing between Aubry and Paul, and I am so excited to be part of their final rose ceremony.
Blake Barnhart
Groomsman
I’m Blake- One Thursday, a few years ago, I was walking home after class. I saw Paul (whom I barely knew) on the sidewalk, so I said, “hey dude, wanna come watch football and drink beer at my house?”. He accepted the offer. If I may say so myself, he made a great choice. Paul has become one of my closest friends since then, which I am very thankful for. We have bonded over: football and beer, coffee (the blend), intentionally pronouncing things incorrectly, making loud grunting noises when standing up or sitting down, unnecessarily throwing things, and the list goes on. Needless to say, it’s an honor to stand with him as he and Aubry tie the knot!
Kate Scott
Bridesmaid
Aubry and I met in 2015 when we became roommates at Grand Valley. We ended up loving each other so much we lived together for 3 years! During that time Aubry met Paul on a missions trip and they fell ~in love~ To make a long story short I found out from each Aubry and Paul that they had secret crushes on each other; so I did a little matchmaking and well; here we are today! I’m so excited to still call Aubry one of my best friends and can’t wait to stand in her wedding.
Bert Carey
Groomsman
Hi my name is Bert. Paul and I met in college. We quickly became good buddies as we realized we had more and more similar interests the longer we got to know each other. 3+ years later and we’re both continuing on the same path with grad school. We find time to go fishing together and any other activity that gives us a break from school life. It brings me joy to be able to have the opportunity to go through grad school with a close friend and even more joy to stand at his side on the most important day of his life. Congrats guys!
Taylor Hausfeld
Bridesmaid
A friendship like the one that I am lucky enough to have with Aubry is one for the ages. When we first met in nursing school, I realized immediately that I had met my match in the best friend department. Someone who can not only return, but exceed, the loyalty, kindness, genuineness, and closeness given is almost unheard of in this day and age. Aubry does that and more. To be able to stand by her side while she marries the love of her life (who is also quite the guy himself) is not only a privilege, but an honor. Cheers to your happily ever after and a lifetime of true friendship.
Ryan Anderson
Groomsman
Hello! My name is Ryan Anderson and I will be one of your groomsmen on this special day. I have gotten to know Paul and Aubry over the last couple of years and they have become some of my best friends. I met Paul and Aubry because I grew quite fond of the Maid of Honor and began courting her. Paul you are my dude, and I love you to death and hope our friendship continues to grow as we one day become brothers. Straubs aka Best Friend you know what it is girl, love you lots. My role is to make this the best day of your entire life and I will do whatever it takes even if that means I have to party all night!
Lonnie Thayer
Bridesmaid
Aubry has been in my life since 2016, about a year after she and Paul started dating. Our first summer together was full of adventure and showing the love of Christ. Throughout that I was able to get to know her in a way that brought us closer than I ever thought. We have always been long distance friends and never lived in the same place after those first three months of our friendship. But she has been someone who it didn’t matter how far apart we were, we’re still best friends.
Brittany Dingman
Groomswoman
Hi friends! I am Paul’s sister in law, married to Max. Paul and I met when he was a wee 8 years old crying over some pizza. I played a large part in his life by chauffeuring him around when he was in high school and being the buffer between his older annoying brothers! I may be a foot shorter than him now, but he will always be my little buddy! I am SO PSYCHED for Paul and Aubs and cannot wait to celebrate the crap out of this amazing couple!