To RSVP, please click the RSVP tab here on our website and type your name in. All invited guests in your party will appear here to mark as "will attend" or "will not attend". Please RSVP before November 12th 2024. All RSVPs received after this date will be marked as declining. We will be sending a final headcount to our vendors following this date.
Unfortunately, we cannot accommodate additional guests. Due to limited capacity at our venue, we can only allow the people named on your invitation. All invited members of your party will appear in the RSVP form. We look forward to celebrating with out closest friends and family.
Black tie attire requested. We ask that men wear a tuxedo or a dark suit and tie and women wear an evening gown or knee-length cocktail dress. Ladies, please refrain from wearing any white, ivory, or champagne tones.
While we love your kids, this venue does have limited capacity. We have chosen to have an adults only wedding. We do encourage you to use this evening as a fun "night out" for yourselves!
Both the ceremony and the reception will be held at the Whitby Castle 330 Boston Post Rd, Rye, NY 10580
The ceremony starts at 3:00pm
We are not providing any formal transportation for the events, but our ceremony and reception are taking place in the same location. There is ample parking for those who feel comfortable driving, and Lyft/Uber is a great option for those who don’t. Please stay safe and default to a ride service or carpooling if you plan to drink.
We’ve hired a photographer and we’d love to have photos with no phones or devices in them. Please put away your cameras and phones during our unplugged wedding ceremony
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