Unless personally told otherwise BY THE BRIDE OR GROOM, children are not invited. We love your kids but we needed to limit the number of guests given the size of our families. We know that this presents an issue for many of the invited parents, but please understand that we are trying to have as many of our friends and families experience our special day with us as we can.
If your invitation says “and Guest”, you may bring a date. If your invitation does not say “and Guest", nope.
Cocktail Attire - Semi-Formal. It IS at a barn... (but it's a fancy barn).