We both had already followed each other on instagram, though neither know how or why. One night Patrick liked a photo of Sterling's, and she direct messaged him. We talked non stop, sending novels day and night getting to know one another. Sterling not so subtly said "are you coming to Texas or am I coming to Nebraska?" Luckily we knew a couple of people in common so the danger factor went down substantially with words of praise vouched for on both parties accounts. One week later Sterling was on a flight to Nebraska. Patrick made his famous lemon blueberry cinnamon rolls, and the rest is history!