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October 4, 2025
Selbyville, Delaware

Patrick & Shannon

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What do I need to know about the Welcome Party?

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Our Welcome Party will take place at the Shore Deck in Ashore Beach Club & Resort on Friday, October 3, beginning at 7:00 PM. Drinks and light bites will be provided, but we encourage you to eat dinner beforehand. We kindly ask that guests wear white or light neutral attire in a coastal, dressy casual style—think soft shades like beige, cream, tan, light gray, or blush rather than dark colors. Light, airy fabrics such as linen, cotton, or chiffon are perfect. Outfits could include sundresses, jumpsuits, skirts with a nice top, or chinos with a button-down.

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Where are the ceremony and reception taking place?

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The ceremony and reception will both be held at Bayside Resort Golf Club (12021 North Haven Drive, Selbyville, DE 19975). The ceremony will be held outdoors with an indoor reception.

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Can I bring a date?

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We are so excited to celebrate this day with our nearest and dearest! Due to our venue's limited capacity, we can only accommodate those specifically listed on your invitation. Thank you for understanding!

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Are children welcome?

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While we love your little ones, we have decided to make this an adults-only celebration. We hope that you understand and take the opportunity to have a well-deserved night off!

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Is there a dress code?

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We would love to see our family and friends dress up with us for the big day! We are requesting formal attire for our wedding. For men, a tuxedo is welcome but certainly not required; a suit and tie are perfectly appropriate. For women, we recommend a floor-length dress, a chic cocktail dress, or a formal jumpsuit. Please note: The ceremony will take place on the first tee box, so consider footwear that’s comfortable for outdoors. The remainder of the event will be held indoors.

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Will transportation be provided?

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Yes, transportation will be provided on the wedding day. A shuttle will arrive at Fenwick Shores at 4:20 PM to take guests to Bayside Resort Golf Club for the ceremony. Return shuttle will arrive at Bayside by 10:15 PM to bring guests back to Fenwick Shores.

Question

I have a dietary restriction, can I make a special request?

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Yes, we will include options to accommodate dietary restrictions. Please indicate on your RSVP your specific dietary restriction, so we can plan accordingly.

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Do you have a wedding registry?

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Your presence is the greatest gift of all, and we truly do not expect anything more! For those who wish to give, we are registered at Crate & Barrel and Pottery Barn, and we would also appreciate contributions toward our future together.

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