No. It's going to be private and small with close friends and family. That's why we are having the house party afterward.
Because there is one wedding gift we do not want: debt. Big families = big wedding = $$$!
No. We don't have to reserve places, order anything, or have a planner. It's just a low maintenance normal house party. It's thousands of dollars vs hundreds.
Basically, wear what you want. Heck, wear a bear costume if you want. It'll be cold enough outside.