FAQs
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How should I RSVP?
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Please RSVP via the RSVP section of our website or by calling : Julia Harris - (314) 800-6406
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When is the RSVP deadline?
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Early RSVP responses are very appreciated! Your reply is requested by April 1st 2026.
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Are children welcome?
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We have included all invitees on the invitations and RSVP link. While we wanted to include all the children in our lives, our venue's capacity did limit us. The majority of children are invited. If you feel we have missed someone please reach out to Julia Harris - (314) 800-6406, so they can double check!
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What should I wear?
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We welcome our family and friends to celebrate with us in 'cocktail attire' or 'festive attire'. For those unfamiliar with the 'festive attire' option we have provided a link with some information on that option! https://www.lulus.com/blog/fashion/festive-wedding-attire/ We have also created an inspiration board under "Attire - Festive Cocktail".
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What shoes should I wear?
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We kindly request cocktail/festive attire, so feel free to bring your stylish shoes for the ceremony and dinner -- but we know that the City Museum is no ordinary venue! It's an active, climbable, wildly creative space where some guests (especially little ones!) may want to explore. If you're planning to adventure a bit - or just want to stay comfortable once the dancefloor opens - we recommend bringing a second pair of comfy shoes (flats, sneakers, etc.). Some guests will stay in their heels all night, others will be in Nikes by the end. Do what feels best for you - we love a practical fashion moment.
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What are the wedding colors?
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Indigo & Periwinkle. Shades of blue and purple. Guests are welcome to dress in the wedding colors if they would like! *Please refrain from wearing white dresses, gowns, or suit jackets.
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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
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The wedding ceremony will be completely indoors while the reception will be indoors with access to an outdoor area. The average temperature for St. Louis in early May includes highs of 77 and lows of 58 degrees Fahrenheit.
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What time should I arrive to the Ceremony?
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Please arrive at least 15-30 minutes before the official start time so you can get settled in before the proceedings. The ceremony will begin promptly at 3:30pm.
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Will transportation be provided?
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We ask our guests to travel to the venues using their vehicles, local rideshare apps, and the vehicles of our other attendees via carpooling. If you have concerns regarding transportation please reach out to us! For your convenience we have Uber vouchers available via our code: RRZALQRCFYQ *enter our code into your Uber app* or follow this link: https://r.uber.com/RRZALQRCFYQ
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Is there parking available at the ceremony and reception venues?
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Yes! Both venues have parking available for our guests. The Tower Grove Abbey offers FREE parking but have asked that all guests park in the Shenandoah Elementary School parking lot located next door. This is to be courteous to the residential neighbors surrounding the venue who rely on street parking. There will be a parking attendant present to help guide you to a spot! The City Museum offers parking in their "Serpent Lot" for the price of $15 per car. We have prepaid for a block of parking spots available to our guests on a first-come-first-serve basis. IMPORTANT: The City Museum does not allow cars to remain in the lot overnight. If you anticipate being unable to drive at the end of the night we recommend parking your car at the hotel - 21C Museum Hotel St. Louis (7 minute walk) - or using the surrounding street parking.
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Is it okay to take pictures with our phones and cameras?
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Yes! We would like to encourage everyone to create memories and capture them. We know that we won't be able to join in every moment, but would love to experience them through all the images you share with us!
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What will be served during the reception dinner?
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We have opted for a buffet style dinner. Specialized plates are available upon request (ex: vegetarian, gluten free, kids meals). Please let us know of any dietary restrictions when you RSVP! We will ensure that the dietary restrictions of our beloved friends and family are accommodated in the spread.
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I have a dietary restriction. What's the best way to let you know?
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Should you choose to RSVP online via our wedding website there is an area to provide updated dietary restrictions. If you prefer to RSVP via phone please provide information on your dietary restrictions/allergies then.
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Will there be an open bar?
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YES
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What's the best way to contact you if I have additional questions?
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You can reach both the bride and groom via email at : amannixwedding@gmail.com Or via phone. Patrick : (618) 420-8804 // Audrey : (314) 422-6158 If you have questions on the day of the wedding please contact: Mother or the Bride - Julia Harris : (314) 800-6406 Mother of the Groom - Judy Mannix : (618) 660-8541 Additional Contacts for Day of Concerns: Father of the Bride - Blake Harris : (314) 347-8064 Father of the Groom - Dave Mannix : (703) 203-0502 Brother of the Bride - Frank Harris : (314) 308-1824