FAQs
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When should I RSVP by
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To help us with our planning, we ask that you kindly RSVP by April 1, 2025. If we do not receive your RSVP by then, we will unfortunately have to mark you as a "no". This is because we do need to provide the venue and caterer with a total guest count in a timely manner, and we hope that you understand.
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Are kids invited?
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Only if specified in the invitation, your children are more than welcome to attend. We are encouraging our guests to use our night as a date night away from the kiddos. Please be aware there will be alcohol and a DJ, do with this information as you must. (If you've ever partied with the Cherrys', you know...) **The music played at the reception may not be suitable for your little ones ears. You may receive questions like "mommy, what's a big booty hoe?"
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What to wear?
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Semi Formal/cocktail. Men: clean jeans/cargo pants/ shorts with a button up/polo shirt will do, but if you want to wear a tie and everything go right ahead! Women: clean jeans and a dress top, or dress pants and dress top, if you want to wear a dress or even a skirt w/ dress top is perfectly fine! Just want more than casual every day please! Any type of footwear allowed including boots. PLEASE DO NOT SHOW UP IN WHITE LADIES. Thank you :)
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Unfortunately, we cannot accommodate additional guests. Due to limited capacity, we can only accommodate the people listed on your invitation. Your invitation will be made out to "{Your Name? + Guest" if a plus one has been given to you. Thank you for understanding! *Plus ones will not be added on the save the dates, so don't panic! The actual invitation will include all additional guests
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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?
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Our ceremony will be "unplugged", meaning that we are asking for personal devices to be put away during the ceremony. We have a wonderful photographer and will be videotaping the whole ceremony and are more than happy to share those photos and videos with you afterwards. At the reception, however, we encourage everyone to take photos and to please share those with us as you're able!
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Is there an open bar?
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Yes! Please drink on us! However, as much as we love a party, please keep your own limits in mind during the reception :) If you would like to bring your own as well that fine!!!
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Is there a dollar dance?
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We are not doing a dollar dance, but instead we will have bowls set on the tables and whoever’s table has the most money will get to eat first after the wedding party! :)