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September 19, 2026
Sparta, NJ

Virginia & Tristan

FAQs

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Are kids welcome?

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Although we love your little ones, we have decided this will be an adult-only event. Please refer to the names on the invite for clarification on who from your party is included in your invite. Thank you for understanding!

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Can I bring a date?

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Unless otherwise specified on the invite, we are not able to accommodate a plus one for all guests for this event. Thank you for understanding.

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Is there parking?

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Yes. Parking is available valet-style once you enter the parking lot.

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Is there a dress code?

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Black Tie Optional: tuxes and gowns are welcome as well as cocktail dresses and suits. Colors to avoid: White, cream, ivory, navy, and gold. Please and thank you!

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Can I snap my own photos during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask that you hold off taking any photos until after the ceremony is complete. Our photographer is eager to capture your raw reactions during the ceremony. We will encourage everyone to take photos during cocktail hour and the reception. Opportunities to upload them to our photo sharing app will be available through QR codes on the tables.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Our venue has a list of recommended hotels that we have included under the travel tab to this site. Please feel free to book with any hotel of your choosing, either on or off the list provided!

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When should I RSVP by?

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More details to come- formal invites will be sent and will include RSVP information.

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Are you registered? Where?

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A gift registry will be available in a separate tab on this website. Once we have a finalized registry, it will be shared here.

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Are the ceremony and the reception held in different places?

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No! All festivities are taking place at Rock Island Lake Club so come hungry and ready to party!