FAQs
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Are kids welcome?
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We love you and your children but we are having an adults only wedding. We are not accommodating children unless specified in your invitation. Thank you for making arrangements ahead of time and leaving the kids at home.
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What should I expect at a Catholic wedding?
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In addition to exchanging our vows, we will have a full Catholic mass to celebrate our wedding. Everyone can participate in most parts of a Catholic Mass no matter what faith you are. Catholics believe in the True Presence of Jesus in the Eucharist in his Body and Blood and that only practicing Catholics can receive Him under this form. If you are someone who is not of the Catholic faith and would still like to participate in the Communion procession, we ask that you go up with your arms crossed over your chest so that you can receive a blessing from the priest!
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Due to our large families and budget constraints, we are only inviting those specifically named on the invitation.
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How do I RSVP?
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Please visit the RSVP section of this website to formally accept or decline your invitation. Even if you verbally expressed that you plan to attend, please RSVP online so we have an accurate headcount.
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What is the deadline to RSVP?
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Please RSVP no later than August 11, 2025.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Please arrive 15-20 minutes before mass begins.
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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
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The ceremony will be taking place inside of Mission San Luis Rey. The reception will take place outdoors with overhead covering. Please check weather prior to arriving!
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WHAT IS THE DRESS CODE?
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The dress code for our wedding is Formal attire. Tuxedo or dark suit and tie for men. Evening gown or knee length cocktail dresses for women.
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Who should I contact with questions the day of the wedding?
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Please email our wedding coordinator, Maria Gardea (eventsbymaria40@gmail.com), we kindly ask you do not text or call the bride or groom day of.
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What time will the reception end?
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Ending time is after midnight or until the police stops the celebration!
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Will there be parking?
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Although there is parking, please carpool or Uber for those that will be drinking!
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Will Alcohol be served?
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Please come ready to drink, there will be an open bar. Leave the kids and car at home.