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October 22, 2023
Herrin, IL
#TheLingles

Ben & Pamela

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by July 31st, 2023.

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I forgot to RSVP. Can I still come?

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If by July 31st, 2023 you have not RSVP’d, we unfortunately cannot count you in the final listing. You will be missed!

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Can I bring a guest?

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Unfortunately, due to capacity restraints, please refer to the guest count given to you.

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Are kids welcome?

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Absolutely, as long as it is within the family guest count.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Parking is onsite gravel.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive by 3:30-4:00pm, as we would like to start the ceremony promptly by 4:30pm.

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Is there a dress code?

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As the ceremony and reception are both outdoors, please dress semi-formal (please no jeans or t-shirts) and be cautious of the weather.

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Is a mask required?

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Masks are optional, but not a requirement unless the venue changes regulations in which everyone will be notified.

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Can I take pictures at the ceremony and reception?

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We are asking everyone to please respect the bride and groom by having no phones out during the ceremony, reception and such is fine The bride and groom will take the time to get pictures with everyone that they can. We ask that you please give them the time to do so.

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Sabbath, October 21.

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Those wishing to spend Sabbath with the Bride and groom, they will be attending church service at 11am at Thompsonville SDA Church. There will be a potluck afterwards at the church pavilion. Please let Ben or Pamela know if you are going to attend.

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If I fly into St.Louis or Marion airport, will someone be available to pick me up?

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Everyone will be so busy with the wedding excitement and as much as we would love to get you, we ask that you please try to find your own transportations to your hotels and such places. As easy as it is to fly here, we know driving would be the best option. We would greatly appreciate it. However, we understand if you are unable to attend due to these circumstances.

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Gifts?

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Since we have been married and in our own space, we have almost everything we need. That being, there will only be a box for cards/envelopes at the reception. There is also a honeymoon fund linked to the registry. You can also cash app, Venmo, or PayPal us. We appreciate anything!

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What is your Venmo, cash app, etc?

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Venmo: pamela_mariee PayPal: blphotographysi@gmail.com Cash App: $pmlingle

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I have more questions that are not on here!

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Please feel free to contact Ben or Pamela for any extra information. There are many of you so please try to see the FAQS provided. We are so excited to share this day with everyone!

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