FAQs

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Why did you choose somewhere so far away?

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Robert and I enjoy traveling and experiencing the world with each other the most and we have always been fascinated with the national parks. We wanted to bring both the parks and our wedding together.

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Can I stay longer at Firefall Ranch?

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Yes! You're more than welcome to book longer, but if your decide to book after June 24, then your may have to call Firefall Ranch directly to book using our code "BARTHOLOMEW" if the rooms are still available.

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What's the dress code?

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Please no jeans. We would prefer semi formal attire for our event. Ladies in dresses or jumpsuits and men in a a suit or khakis and a button down. Ties are encouraged but optional.

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Are children invited?

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Our venue considers our wedding event an "elopement" so our guest list is minimal. Unfortunately, this means littles will have to stay home for this one. They are more than welcome to come to our reception back home in spring 2026.

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Do I get a plus one?

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We have a very limited guest list so unfortunately we will not be able to accommodate plus ones. Your invitations will be addressed accordingly.

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Is the ceremony outdoors?

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Yes, our ceremony space is outdoors and our reception will be held indoors. The temperatures in October in Groveland are typically 50-70 degrees.

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What if I can not attend?

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That is okay! Both Robert and I understand it is a lot to ask for your attendance at a destination wedding. Please RSVP "no" so we have an accurate guest count. We do plan to have a large reception back home sometime during the spring of 2026. We will celebrate with you then!

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I have more questions... How should I get ahold of you?

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You can reach Paiton directly at (219) 221-7305. Please send a text first since her work schedule varies. She will get back to you, but if you need something urgent feel free to message her maid of honor, Hannah, at (219) 221-7284.