We recommend getting an Air BnB or VRBO in Palmer or Wasilla.
Palmer is a very outdoorsy town with tons of beautiful hikes through the mountains and plenty of lakes to hang out by. Check out Hatchers Pass, only 20 minutes from the venue! Or go for a scenic drive to Girdwood and check out Alyeska Resort, Kenai for amazing salmon fishing, Homer for a killer ocean view, or Talkeena and meet the mayor -a cat named Aurora.
No. Use it for its purpose, otherwise you will not be accounted for.
If you have to ask- the answer is no.
Sucks dude, we don't have the time or patience to deal with your lack of planning. This is a 21+ wedding. RSVP or there won't be a seat for you. Please plan accordingly and respect our wishes.