FAQs
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A Monday? You guys are getting married on a Monday?
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Yes, yes we are! 1. The date is significant to us (yes, us not just DJ) 2. To put it simply; if you want to be there, you'll be there.
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When should I RSVP?
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RSVP information will be under the RSVP tab at the top of this website when available.
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Did you sell the racecar?
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No, the racecar is not going anywhere. Ashley made me promise to not sell it.
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Can I bring my kid(s) or plus one?
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1. Did you receive an invitation? 2. On your invitation does it have you and/or your guest's name or Plus One written on it? If you answered these honestly, you answered your own question.
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What is the dress code?
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Formal attire. The Ceremony will be held outside and the Reception will be hybrid, weather permitting. Keep it in mind as the beginning of September can be 90 degrees or 40 degrees for no reason. No sneakers, jeans, jorts, sweatpants, tank tops, shorts, and by the State of New Jersey law (N.J.S.A. 2C: 14-4) birthday suits are prohibited.
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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?
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Please plan to arrive no later than 4:00 pm. We are starting promptly at 4:15 PM Eastern Standard Time (US). Please arrive with enough time to park and make your way to the ceremony space. Late comers will be hazed mercifully. If your names are Jay and Steve please note your time of arrival has been modified to fit your needs. You have been tasked with 3:45 PM.
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Is there parking at the venue?
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Yes! The Patterson Family Barn provides plenty of parking!
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Will you have a hotel?
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Information regarding hotel accommodations will be under the ‘Travel’ tab at the top of this website.
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Do you two have a registry?
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Yes! All registry information can be found in the 'Registry' tab at the top of this website.
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What food will you guys have?
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We will be providing a cocktail hour, buffet style dinner, and an open bar!
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Can I take photos?
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Yes, absolutely, however the ceremony will be UNPLUGGED. If a phone is seen you will be promptly and kindly removed from the ceremony.
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Any specific theme or colors you two would like us to wear?
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DO NOT show up in white. We will change the color for you, that is a promise.
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Food Allergies
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If you have any food allergies PLEASE inform us by mid July and we will accommodate you accordingly. If you don't, best of luck this was your chance.