FAQs

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

Aloha attire or your favorite floral summer outfits for an outdoor ceremony and indoor reception.

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Can I bring a date?

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Our guest list is limited, so the invitation is for the names listed. Please check your RSVP to see if you have a plus-one attached to your invite.

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Are children invited?

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While we love your kids, we plan on having an adults-only ceremony and reception for the evening outside of a few select family members. Please check your RSVP to see if you have guest(s) attached to your reservation.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes! Ko'olau Ballrooms has a large parking lot if you're planning to drive!

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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If you are not driving, we recommend either carpooling or Uber/Lyft to and from the venue

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What time should I arrive? What time will the reception end?

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Please arrive by 3:45 PM so we can begin the ceremony promptly at 4:00 PM. All guests must exit the venue by 10:00 PM.

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What if I have a dietary restriction?

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Please reach out to us directly if you have any dietary restrictions. We will try our best to accommodate.

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Is there a gifts registry?

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Your presence is enough of a present to us! But for those of you who insist, we will accept cash gifts via venmo (@bota808). Last 4 digits of phone number: 2129.

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When should I RSVP by?

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We’d love to hear from you as soon as you’re able. If you still need time to plan, our RSVP deadline is April 1st, 2026.