Wedding Party
Tara Grams
Bride
Tara and the groom met doing what they do best—working through challenges together at work, fittingly at an LED lighting company. From the very beginning, she quite literally lit up his world. At her core, Tara is kind and thoughtful, with a laugh that draws people in, a smile that lights up a room, and a rare ability to never take a bad photo. As a partner, she brings balance—taking the groom’s big dreams and visions and translating them into something even better, while also skillfully (and lovingly) killing the bad ideas along the way. She is the heart, the clarity, and the light that makes everything else shine.
Jordan Onnen
Groom
Jordan is a builder at heart—a dreamer, a problem-solver, and someone who’s always believed there’s a better way to do things. With a quick wit and a big vision, he brings creativity, humor, and relentless energy into everything he takes on. While he’s known for dreaming big and moving fast, it’s his heart, loyalty, and willingness to grow that truly define him. In Tara, he found not only the love of his life, but the perfect partner—someone who challenges him, balances him, and helps turn bold ideas into something real and lasting.
Kelsey Onnen
Matron of Honor
Kelsey is the groom’s sister and the bride’s Matron of Honor—bringing both lifelong family ties and a whole lot of heart to this role. From childhood adventures that included Barbie cars outfitted with hand-drawn subwoofers to surviving the occasional sibling jump scare, she’s been part of the groom’s life from day one. Known for her love of sunshine, warm weather, and being anywhere near a boat (or headed to a warmer climate), Kelsey is also incredibly helpful and always willing to go above and beyond. The bride is lucky to have her by her side, and the groom couldn’t ask for a better sister.
Jared Onnen
Bestest Mensch (Best Man)
Jared is the groom’s brother and lifelong partner in building, driving, inventing, and occasionally crashing things—all in the name of learning and finding a better way. Known for being chill and up for just about anything, Jared is the kind of person you can run a wild idea by and somehow end up with a smarter version of it by the end of the conversation. Whether it’s talking life around a bonfire or just sharing a good laugh, he’s always game. The groom couldn’t imagine standing up here without him—and honestly wouldn’t want to try.
Amber Christensen
Bridesmaid
Amber met the bride through work, and over the past four years has become a steady, positive presence in her life. Known for always giving people the benefit of the doubt and never speaking poorly about anyone, Amber brings a rare sense of calm—especially in chaos. In fact, her very first meeting with Tara was memorable for all the wrong (and now hilarious) reasons, when she unknowingly gifted the entire leadership team COVID. Despite that iconic introduction, she quickly proved herself as the calm one, the steady hand, and the kind of person you want in your corner. Truly a “black SUV mom” at heart, Amber is a grounding force in a chaotic world and a wonderful friend to stand beside the bride today.
Adam LeMahieu
Groomsman
Adam met the groom through work at a lighting company and, over the past two years, has become both a trusted right-hand man and a great friend. Known for his sharp sarcasm and oddly perfect sense of humor, Adam is forward-thinking, genuinely kind, and always willing to help. As the controller and director of admin and finance, he’s the rare person who plans so far ahead—booking tickets months (or years) in advance—that the groom often forgets the plans even exist. Whether at work or in life, Adam brings structure, foresight, and laughs to the table, making him exactly the kind of person you want standing beside you.
Miranda Hertz
Bridesmaid
Miranda is Tara’s younger sister and brings energy, laughter, and easygoing charm wherever she goes. As the “baby” of the family, she’s known for having a hard time saying no to her nieces and nephews—something that once led to the unforgettable adventure of getting accidentally locked in Logan’s bedroom while babysitting for six hours. Despite the occasional chaos, Miranda embraces her role as the fun-loving, always-up-for-anything “cool aunt.” Known affectionately as “Manda Panda,” she brings heart, humor, and sisterly love to this special day as she stands beside Tara.
Joe Leenstra
Groomsman
Joe is the groom’s brother-in-law, married to his sister Kelsey, and has been part of the family long enough to know exactly what he signed up for. Hardworking, honest, and steadfast, Joe owns and operates Joe’s Auto Repair, where he spends his days fixing just about anything with an engine. When he’s not in the shop, he enjoys spending time at the lake with Kelsey and their kids. Known for being a reliable voice of reason and someone you can always count on, Joe brings both steady wisdom and a good sense of humor to the groom’s corner on this special day.
Logan Grams
Honorary Escort to the Bride
Logan is fourteen, the oldest of the kids, and a master of balance—equal parts calm, logical, and quietly hilarious. He can usually be found deep in the basement with his Xbox and headphones, only emerging when hunger calls, typically for ramen, steak, or brick oven pizza. When he’s not gaming, Logan stays impressively busy playing football, baseball, and wrestling, and is also active in Boy Scouts. As Tara’s first child, he brings steady strength, a level head, and a dependable presence, making him a perfect Honorary Escort for this special moment.
Eli Grams
Honorary Escort to the Bride
Eli is eleven and brings volume, curiosity, and creativity everywhere he goes. Louder and sillier than his older brother, Eli’s endless questions often leave everyone wondering what brilliant (or dramatic) idea is currently forming in his head. He’s known for singing at full volume—especially in the shower—making videos, taking impressive photos, and embracing just about any challenge put in front of him. Always willing to try new foods (at least once), Eli’s bold spirit and big personality make him an unforgettable presence and a meaningful Honorary Escort for his mom on this special day.
Ivy Grams
Flower Girl
Ivy is eight years old and brings a perfect mix of fire and thoughtfulness to everything she does. A natural planner, she’s the kind of kid who loves picking out gifts, thinking ahead, and making sure everyone is taken care of. Whether the event is across town or a full adventure, Ivy arrives prepared—often packing not just for herself, but also for her soon-to-be stepbrother, Zeke. Her caring heart and big sense of responsibility make her an especially meaningful part of this day, and the perfect flower girl to lead the way.
Zeke Onnen
Ring Bearer
Zeke is four years old and full of curiosity, creativity, and nonstop energy. He loves tinkering and building—especially trains—and has an impressive ability to sniff out treats from miles away. A big fan of monster trucks, trains, and Lightning McQueen, Zeke is always asking questions, exploring the world, and finding joy in being outside, swimming, or simply running laps around the house for no reason at all. His adventurous spirit and big personality make him the perfect ring bearer for this special day.