FAQs
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Are kids welcome?
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Children are very welcome at both ceremonies, and we’re so happy to have them be part of our special day! For the reception, we kindly ask that only children aged 4 and up attend. We completely understand that some of you may be traveling with little ones, so we’ve curated a list of a few local childcare options to help make things easier. These childcare options are specifically for weddings and will come onsite to provide care in your hotels rooms. You're also more than welcome to use these services for older kids if you’d prefer to enjoy the celebration a bit more hands-free! https://www.jovie.com/services/wedding/ https://www.myvacationnanny.com/event-childcare/ https://nannyvillage.com/wedding-event-childcare
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When should I arrive to the Bay Area?
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If your schedule allows it, we recommend arriving on Wednesday or Thursday! This gives you time to settle in, explore (check out our Things To Do section!) and be well rested for the big day! If that's not possible, we recommend arriving no later than Friday afternoon.
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Where should I stay?
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We recommend booking your stay at the Grand Bay Hotel from at least Friday to Saturday! This ensures you’ll have access to the shuttle, be on-site for rest and reset time, and have your room nearby if you’d like to turn in early. Feel free to extend your stay if it works better with your travel plans! Our room block can be found on the TRAVEL tab, by clicking VIEW. If you don’t see those dates available in the room block, just let us know via text and we'll work to get them added!
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Will I need a car?
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We will be providing shuttle transportation to and from the Grand Bay Hotel and the San Jose Gurdwara before and after the Sikh Ceremony so you wont need a car for the day! If you plan to get to town early to explore, there are Caltrain and lyft/uber options galore!
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Will there be parking?
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Yes, complimentary valet and overnight parking will be available for all guests.
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The day is a bit of a marathon, I don't know if I can hang!
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We totally understand! We have a break between the morning and the afternoon ceremonies for a siesta and some downtime. However, if you want to just attend one or the other of the ceremonies to conserve energy, feel free to RSVP accordingly!
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What is the dress code?
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We recommend wearing two outfits for the day! - Morning Sikh Ceremony Women: a Salwar Kamiz is a great choice! You'll have to cover your head inside the gurdwara so something with a dupatta and that is more conservative is ideal! Men: a Kurta is a great choice! You'll also have to cover your head in the gurdwara so please bring a bandana and if you forget, no worries! One will be provided. Hindu Ceremony and Reception, both men and where anything you like that is wedding appropriate! Western or South Asian attire is appropriate! Don't forget to check the weather and bring a shawl or sweater if it's a cooler day!