FAQs

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What is the dress code?

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The dress code is formal or black-tie optional. This means that guests have the option of wearing their most formal attire (an evening gown or tuxedo) but may also choose to wear a formal suit or cocktail dress instead. We respectfully request that guests refrain from wearing white (reserved for the bride) and burgundy (bridal party colors).

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Are children invited?

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While we love the little ones, we have decided to host an adults-only celebration to ensure all our guests can fully enjoy the evening. We kindly ask that you make alternate arrangements for childcare so you can join us for a night of celebration! Thank you for your understanding!

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Are plus ones invited?

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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those formally invited. Each invitation is specifically addressed to the number of guests invited. Thank you for understanding!

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When should I RSVP?

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If you are able to RSVP when you receive your invitation - that is great and very helpful! A card will be sent with the invitation with a QR code and our wedding website on it. Once formal invitations are mailed, an RSVP tab will appear. Just type in one name associated with your party, and you will be able to choose who in your party will or will not be able to attend the ceremony and reception. On the reception RSVP, you will be able to make your dinner selection, let us know of any dietary restrictions or allergies, and request a song you would love to hear during the reception. Kindly RSVP before Saturday, September 13, 2025. Thank you for understanding!

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Does the venue have parking?

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The Barn at Wight Farm offers ample parking with handicap-accessible spaces available.

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When should I arrive to the ceremony?

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We recommend that you arrive 30 minutes prior to our 6:30pm ceremony time. This gives us enough time to be on schedule and help out our guests that may need extra assistance finding their seats.

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Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony and reception will both be held indoors.

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Can I take pictures and/or videos during the ceremony?

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We hired the incredible and talented Stephen Whiting and 4th Henry Productions to capture our day! Although we appreciate that you may want to take some pictures, we ask that you honor our "unplugged" ceremony. We will make sure to share lots of pictures and videos with you after the wedding! If you would like to take pictures/videos the rest of the day, please do! Also, make sure to tag us and add our hashtag: #OllineyInLove

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Will it be an open bar?

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There will be an hour of open bar during cocktail hour. After that, it will be a cash bar, so make sure to bring cash or card! Signature drinks and gallons of hot mulled cider and sangria will also be available.