FAQs
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What is the dress code?
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Friday night welcome party, night out casual. Saturday night “Extra Cocktail” if you asked yourself is it too much for a wedding? The answer is no. Be fabulous, be outlandish, be over the top and if your mom hates it, it’s probably perfect. Just be prepared to dance like it’s 1999.
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How will we get to and from Quail Saturday?
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We got you busses, drink up :)
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Is there an after party?
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We'll make a game time call at the end of the night, could be my house, could be Selwyn Pub …. Could be just me and Kevin in our spanx eating pizza. Stay tuned for a vibe check.
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Can I bring my kids?
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We have invited some of the immediate family children over the age of 10, If your family does not have your kids on the RSVP portal they are too young for the party, please get them a sitter and get out for the night, this is an adult event, the bride just has a lot of siblings and everyone had a baby this year. If you have a too new baby 6 months< that you can’t leave at home, they are welcome to come to the reception, please be prepared for loud music (ear protection) and adult activities such as smoke and dirty dancing. If the baby does not care for 36 mafia and martinis they may not have fun. If you’re coming in from out of town and need an on site sitter please reach out to Susan and Arabella Pires for vetted recommendations.
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Food allergies
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We will have a spread of food stations at the reception. Everything will be NUT FREE, we will have a separate station for all gluten free items for our celiac shorties. Vegans….. I don’t think we invited you ….. 😂 jk we may have, let me know if you need some soy based sadness available. Any other allergies that need accommodation please let the bride know.
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What’s going on during the day Saturday?
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You are free to enjoy charlotte!
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Charlotte in October
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We are praying for beautiful weather! It can still be quite warm this time of year here or it can be true fall OR it could be a monsoon. The south is wild with that. Please check the weather apps ahead of the weekend. Both venues for the weekend are predominantly indoor, with air conditioning! You will not be having to hike through a field in stilletos etc. where what you love, shop for what you forgot.
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Is there a ceremony?
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Not exactly ;) stay tuned
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Is everyone welcome to the welcome party?
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Yes! Please rsvp so the bar is ready
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Is this weekend open bar?
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Girl of course. Friday night beer and wine Saturday night beer, wine and spirits. This is a service industry wedding, we will have tip jars/qr for our bartenders and staff.
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Why was this wedding planned so last minute?
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Listen y'all, its been one HECK of a year for us good and bad so we really did not start planning this wedding weekend until after July 4th 2026 when we knew for sure it was going to be feasible. We genuinely apologize for the last minute arrangements and we thank you very much for accommodating the admittedly heinous time frame we've given you.