Frank and I both lovingly refer to the night we met as, "finding love in a hopeless place." The song featuring Rihanna and Calvin Harris was quite popular at the time. We were at an infamously freshman-focused bar dancing (as 18 and 19 year old college students often do). My friend Crystal gave me the go ahead to ask the cute guy dancing with me to join us at a house party. I held his hand almost immediately and was quite surprised to find his name was Frank. He has kept me fascinated with his depth and kindness ever since.