FAQs
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How do I RSVP?
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You can RSVP via this website under the RSVP tab. We kindly ask that you include the name of each person attending and don't use just your family's last name to RSVP.
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What if I don't RSVP in time?
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If you do not RSVP by May 1st 2026 you will unfortunately be marked as "not attending". We would love to celebrate with you, however, we have to provide an exact guest count to our vendors no later than two weeks from the wedding date. This also unfortunately means you will not be able to attend our special day as we will not have the resources to accommodate you.
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What should I do if I can't make it?
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We will miss you dearly! But, we do understand that a Tuesday wedding can be difficult to attend. If you know you cannot attend when invites and RSVPs are sent out please indicate "Will NOT attend" on the RSVP. If you have already RSVP'd "attending" but find that you will not be able to make it please let Olive or Kyen know as soon as you are aware!
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Due to limited budget and the small scale intimacy we are trying to achieve at our wedding we kindly ask that only the people listed on the invite sent to you attend the wedding. The invite will be made out to "(Your Name) & Guest" if a plus one is given to you. Thank you for understanding!
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What time should I arrive?
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The ceremony will begin at 5 o'clock in the evening. We kindly ask that you arrive no later than 4:45 to ensure you are not disrupting or missing any part of our ceremony!
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What is the dress code?
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We encourage all guests to wear semi-formal/formal attire or higher that you feel comfortable, confident, and look good in! Our wedding colors will be primarily moody greens and purples with touches of brown and grey. You can choose to match those or wear others! (other than white of course ;))
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Will the wedding be outdoors?
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Yes! The ceremony will be outdoors on an uncovered lawn area while the reception will be a mix of both indoor and outdoor. We will however be eating indoors
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Can I take photos?
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We are having an "unplugged" ceremony (no phones or cameras outside of our photographer). We want you to be fully present as we say "I do". We promise to share the photos that our professional takes as soon as we receive them. Once the ceremony is over feel free to take as many photos and videos as you'd like!
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Can I post photos from the wedding on social media?
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We would appreciate if all photos and videos taken are not shared until after the wedding. We want everyone to be present and too busy enjoying the night to post anything.
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Will there be alcohol?
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Yes! The vineyard will be serving their house craft cider and wine. We, however, will not be paying for it as neither of us are able to drink legally. It will be a cash style bar for alcoholic drinks. There also will be no hard liquor or shots served. We will, however, be covering the soda charges!
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Can i bring my own alcohol/liquor?
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No, due to venue policy and regulations you are not allowed to bring any other alcoholic beverages onto the premises. If you choose to bring any you will be asked to leave by venue staff.