Glad you asked since we forgot to add it to the invite! Please RSVP by July 31st, 2026. (our Save the Date & Invite are the same: two-in-one!)
The closest hotels to the Ober Family Farm are: -Hampton Inn & Suites Mount Joy/Lancaster West -Holiday Inn Express & Suites Lancaster / Mt. Joy *Please note: These hotels book up quickly due to their proximity to Spooky Nook Sports Complex. We suggest securing any overnight accommodations early. We’re working on transportation—stay tuned for details!
Yes! There is plenty of parking on the farm, but please note that the driveway is loose gravel and about .5 mile long—drive slow. Your GPS may try to take you to Wisegarver Road...ignore it! The correct address is listed on your invite. Look for our wedding signs! Please feel free to leave your car parked at the farm overnight, if needed.
Guests may arrive starting at 4pm for cocktail hour. Dinner will be served at 5:30pm.
Think “farm chic” meets “ready to celebrate.” Dressy casual/semi-formal attire is perfect, but keep in mind we’ll be on grass—a chunky heel or flats may be best! September evenings can get cool, so bring a jacket or wrap. We'll have a bonfire going to keep us warm. Bonus points for outfits that let you ride a mechanical bull in style!
Buffet-style dinner and an open bar with plenty of options for everyone!
Dancing, yard games, a bonfire, a mechanical bull, and maybe even late-night karaoke?!
Although we love your little ones, we will be having an adult-only celebration.