If you have a military dress uniform and feel like looking like a boss, wear it. Other than that, please be comfortable in a suit or the lady equivalent.
Check the two hotels in the travel section. They are not cheap so feel free to venture out on your own. Bricktown is close to everything you'll do with us (wedding stuff).
If you got em, leave em at home! We want this to be a fun relaxing evening for everyone.
Like the penguin, I brought her a pebble.
We have rented a bar (downstairs from the ceremony) for the event. There will be good music (at a reasonable volume), good people, good food, and a lot of drinks. We don't plan to have dancing or do any of the traditional wedding "events" - we just want to hang out with everyone and celebrate! We might have bag toss and mario kart ready to go!