FAQs

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When Should We RSVP By?

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Please RSVP by August 24, 2026, using this website portal! We will not be sending more formal invitations.

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Do I Get a +1?

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While we would love to have friends new and old, our sit-down dinner has a headcount limit. For this reason, we have not been able to give every friend or family member, a plus one. If we haven't explicitly discussed with you, or included your partner on the save the date envelope, please ask us if we have accounted for that individual. We are happy to include others after the formal dinner, or we can assess if we have extra seats following August 24th.

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Where Can We Stay?

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There are various hotels and inns around the East Bay (Oakland, Berkeley) or San Francisco (closer to Bay Bridge). You can find options in the "Travel" tab. Given that many of our guests are local, we haven't selected a hotel block. We will be in touch if this changes from those staying the long weekend.

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What Should I Wear?

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Dust off that spectacular piece in your closet you’ve been absolutely dying to wear. Think fun, colorful, 70s glam, or Old Hollywood elegance. We want you feeling fabulous, dramatic, and ready to celebrate! Cocktail dresses, pantsuits, button up's, feathers, sparkles, you name it....we wanna see it. Holler at us if you need inspo!

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What Time Should We Arrive?

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Doors will open at the restaurant, Almond & Oak, at 5:00 p.m. The sit-down dinner will start at 6:30 p.m. Please try to arrive before the sit-down dinner.