FAQs

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How/when do I RSVP?

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You can RSVP on this website - just look at the top of the screen if you're on a desktop. If you're on a cellphone click the three lines on the top right of the screen. Please send us your acceptances or regrets by February 1st, 2026.

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What is the address for the ceremony?

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262 Swansea Mall Drive Unit #408, Swansea, MA 02777

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Is there a dress code?

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There's more of a theme than a dress code. The theme is Garden Party. Check the gallery tab for inspiration.

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What colors should I avoid wearing?

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White, especially a white wedding dress :) and lavender.

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If I don't RSVP can I still show up to the wedding?

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No. Please utilize the button on the site you are currently on to RSVP. If you show up to the wedding and have not RSVP'd you will not have anywhere to sit and you will not have any food.

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Can I bring a date?

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Unfortunately, we have limited space, so we can't accommodate additional guests for everyone. If you are a special case where we have allowed you a plus one, we have listed their name or "PLUS ONE" on your RSVP profile. If you feel we left out someone important, no we didn't.

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Who do I call in case I get lost the day of the wedding?

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A cab.

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Are kids welcome?

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We would like our special day to be an adult-only occasion.

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What if I have dietary restrictions?

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We are having a buffet style dinner, so hopefully everyone will be able to compile a meal that will make them happy. If you have specific concerns or allergies, please don't hesitate to reach out to either Sage or Nolan and we will confer with our caterer.

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Will alcohol be served?

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Yes! We have paid for the cocktail hour to get everyone started. If you require more than that to enjoy our reception there will be drinks available for purchase.

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Is there a wedding hashtag?

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Yep! Feel free to use #weekendatbernies2026 to help share your night with us!

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Can I take home centerpieces, decorations, etc?

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No. :)

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Where do I park?

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The venue is held in a mostly empty shopping plaza so there’s plenty of parking right outside the venue.

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony starts at or around 4PM. Be there at 3:30PM. If you see Sage getting ready to walk down the aisle you are late and should wait until cocktail hour to show your face.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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Sage and Nolan would prefer that you keep your phone in your pocket for the ceremony. Take all the pictures you want during cocktail hour and the reception.

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How do I choose a wedding gift?

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There is a wedding registry on this website you’re on right now. Feel free to check it out

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Where should I sit for the ceremony?

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Please avoid the front row for the ceremony as it is reserved for close family.

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Where can I find hotel or transportation information?

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We are not providing any transportation to our ceremony. For hotels, there is a page titled “Nearby Hotels” if you’re looking for somewhere to stay.