FAQs

Question

When should I arrive?

Answer

We recommend arriving 20-30 minutes before the ceremony begins to ensure a smooth and timely start. Guests who arrive at or after the ceremony start time will be asked to wait outside the venue until cocktail hour. Durham personnel will be there to assist you. Thank you for your understanding!

Question

Are children allowed at the wedding?

Answer

We've decided to have a kid-free wedding to allow everyone to fully enjoy the evening without any worries. Guests under 16 are not included in the invitation, and we appreciate your understanding.

Question

What is the dress code for the wedding?

Answer

Dress to impress! We're excited to see everyone looking their best, so we kindly request that all guests don their cocktail/formal attire. Leave the denim at home for this special occasion! For men, examples include a classic suit or a dress shirt and tie, paired with dress shoes. Ladies, options include a floor length formal dress, cocktail dress, or a formal blouse with a skirt or trousers, including heels or dressy flats. This article provides helpful guidance on cocktail attire: https://www.brides.com/cocktail-attire-wedding-4844364

Question

Are there recommended hotels for out-of-town guests?

Answer

Certainly! We've arranged special accommodation options for both Friday and Saturday at two hotels within the Old Market area. Visit the "Hotel" tab for direct links and detailed information on the special rates.

Question

Can I use points to buy the hotel stay?

Answer

Since the hotel blocks are offered at a discounted rate, regrettably, points cannot be applied. Nevertheless, you have the option to accrue points through your affiliated hotel account by utilizing our block.

Question

How and when should guests RSVP?

Answer

You can RSVP conveniently through the "RSVP" tab on the website. We kindly request that all guests RSVP by September 19, 2024. If you are unable to attend, we would appreciate an RSVP of "no" by the specified date.

Question

Can guests bring a plus-one?

Answer

Plus ones for guests will be clearly indicated on the invitations, which are set to be sent out in July.

Question

Will the wedding festivities be held at a single venue or multiple locations?

Answer

All elements of our celebration - from the ceremony to the cocktail hour and the after-party - will take place at the same location: The Durham Museum!

Question

Can guests expect a detailed timeline of wedding events?

Answer

Certainly! Stay tuned for a comprehensive timeline, which will be available under the "Schedule" tab several months before the big day.

Question

Will there be food? If so, what time is dinner served?

Answer

Absolutely! We've got you covered with hors d'oeuvres, dinner, dessert, and drinks throughout the evening. To get a detailed timeline of the wedding festivities, please check out the "Schedule" tab here on the website.

Question

Is overnight parking available at the venue?

Answer

Yes! Overnight parking is available without penalty. Guests can leave their cars in the lot and pickup the next day.

Question

Will transportation be provided?

Answer

Our hotel, along with several other options in the Old Market district, is situated near the venue. While we regret to inform you that shuttle transportation is not available, rest assured that there is ample parking onsite and accessible ride-sharing services for your convenience.

Question

Special Accommodations: Is the venue wheelchair accessible?

Answer

Absolutely! The venue is wheelchair accessible. Both the ceremony and dinner areas are on a single level. Additionally, the cocktail hour space can be easily reached using the available elevator.

Question

Where is the couple registered?

Answer

Explore our registry through the Zola link, featuring options from various stores. Target is also on our list as well as a cash fund for our future home. Find all registry links in the "Registry" tab on our website. We appreciate monetary gifts too!