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How does a Traditional Hindu wedding work on May 21, 2022?

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Start time - around 8 a.m. Main event - between 9 and 930 am End time - around 10:30 a.m. Lunch - 11:30 a.m. 1. Times are approximate as a result of the couple's horoscopes and the priest's determination of the most auspicious time to conduct the marriage. The time/day calculation is derived from Hindu Vedic Astrology and is of utmost importance in order to avoid the presence of evil eye at the wedding. 2. Brochures will be provided to all guests to help provide a quick summary of what occurs on the 21st. An MC will also be on stage to discuss the significance of the various steps indicated on the brochure. 3. Sitting Etiquette at an Indian Wedding: Folks are not usually on time, so don't feel pressured to be at the Temple at 8 a.m. Once you arrive at the temple, you are free to walk in and out of the venue, talk to your family and friends, and move around. There is no requirement to continuously sit in your chair to watch the ceremony.

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Dress Code for Women:

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Yes, wearing Indian wedding outfits is entirely appropriate and encouraged - certainly for the first day, but also the second day. For the reception, wear bright colors/summer wedding outfits like sundresses/jumpsuits. Indian outfits are 100% also acceptable because we will be wearing them too! May 21, 2022: Try to stay conservative (I.e. no extreme low cut blouses or short skirts. But sleeveless lehengas/dresses are absolutely welcomed). Make sure to accessorize - Add bangles, ornate necklaces and earrings to your outfits. Try to stay away from black/white colored clothing. May 22, 2022: Cocktail / Summer Wedding Wear: Wear bright and colorful sundresses/jumpsuits, or festive Indian clothing. PRO TIP: Keyword search “Indian wedding wear” on Etsy/Amazon/Google. You can also order/get it shipped to you ahead of time and customize with your measurements! Example of Websites to search from: https://etsy.me/2QdWRkj; https://etsy.me/3aIRCA0; https://etsy.me/2DzTT3l; https://www.cbazaar.com/women/clothing/salwar-kameez/sharara-suit; https://www.cbazaar.com/diwali

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Dress Code for Men:

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May 21, 2022: Indian Kurtas, short or long sleeve linen shirts, and linen pants/khakis May 22, 2022: Summer Cocktail Attire - bright pastels, sport coats, linen suits, slacks/chinos, pastel colors. No ties! Indian outfits are 100% also acceptable because we will be wearing them too! For Indian inspiration, here are a couple websites you can order from - and directly customize and ship to you: Pro Tip: Search for Indian Outfits for men on Google/Etsy/Amazon https://etsy.me/37aA3Xy; https://etsy.me/395fJYv; https://etsy.me/3cBfNk6; https://etsy.me/3iAjkDk; https://etsy.me/2ZNxl8c; https://etsy.me/3hFjQ2g https://www.cbazaar.com/men/clothing/kurta-pyjamas; https://www.cbazaar.com/men/clothing/sherwanis

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What type of food can we expect?

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May 21, 2022: Traditional, vegetarian Indian food at the temple. Breakfast and lunch will be served! May 22, 2022: Also primarily Indian, however, we will also serve a mix of vegetarian and non-vegetarian food!

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Required to attend the event on May 21st and May 22nd?

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Not at all, while we would love to celebrate both events with you, we understand COVID restrictions and travel arrangements are difficult. Feel free to attend just one or BOTH events! Please RSVP to BOTH events on Zola to notify us which event(s) you’re celebrating with us!!

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Kids allowed?

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May 21, 2022: Kids are welcome! May 22,2022: With the exception of a few nieces and nephews, we are requesting for family and friends to make other accommodations for their young ones. This will primarily be a 21+ event!

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COVID 19 and how it impacts our wedding day/reception?

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This will be a medium-large wedding with close to 250 guests at the temple wedding on May 21, 2022 and the reception on May 22, 2022. Please stay home if you’re not feeling well, we certainly understand that health comes first!

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RSVP Deadline?

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March 1, 2022. Or as soon as you receive the invitation! :) Scan the QR code on your invitation to submit your RSVP, so no need to mail anything back! The QR code will take you right to our Zola wedding website, where you can RSVP right on it!