FAQs

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What should I wear?

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On May 23rd, the attire will be Indian wear, which includes saris, lenghas, and kurtas for the women and kurta pajama, sherwani, Pathani suit, and dhoti kurta for men. Please feel free to wear formal dresses for women or suits for men if you prefer. On May 24th, the dress code is formal attire. Jacket and tie required. We recommend garden formal dresses for women.

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When should I arrive?

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On May 23rd, our guests may start arriving at Shree Shatki Mandir at 8:30 am. On May 24th, our guests may start arriving at Primrose Cottage at 5:30 pm.

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Will the ceremony be outdoors?

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On May 23rd, the Hindu ceremony will be held indoors. On May 24th, we plan to hold the ceremony and cocktail hour outdoors, weather permitting. The reception will be held indoors.

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Is there a hotel block?

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Yes. Please see the Travel section on this website.

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Will there be parking?

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Yes. There is plenty of free parking at both venues on May 23rd and May 24th.

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What does the Hindu wedding consist of?

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Baraat (Groom's Procession): The groom arrives on a decorated horse, car, or elephant, accompanied by dancing family members. Milni: The bride’s family welcomes the groom’s family with garlands. Mandap & Ceremony: The wedding takes place under a four-posted canopy (mandap). Key rituals include the Jai Mala (exchanging garlands) and Kanyadaan (giving away the bride). Bride’s Arrival: Bride arrives after the groom and parents have began the puja. She and the bridal party make their way down the aisle. Saptapadi (Seven Steps): The couple takes seven steps around the sacred fire (Agni), symbolizing vows for companionship, prosperity, and love. Sindoor & Mangalsutra: The groom applies red vermillion to the bride's forehead and ties a sacred black bead necklace around her neck, symbolizing her status as a married woman. Vidaai: An emotional farewell where the bride formally leaves her parental home, often throwing rice over her head to show gratitude and ensure prosperity.