The Finer Details

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Are kids invited?

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While we love your little ones, we are asking for our ceremony and reception to be child free. Teenagers will be listed if invited. We hope the advance notice gives you time to find sitters. Please take the night as an opportunity to enjoy a night out with your partner! We truly appreciate your understanding and can't wait to celebrate with you!

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How do I RSVP?

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To RSVP, click the RSVP tab and type the name(s) listed on your invitation.

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When should I RSVP?

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To help us with our planning, please RSVP to the event as soon as possible! We kindly ask to RSVP as soon as possible but the deadline is March 15th, 2026. If we don't receive your RSVP by this date, we cannot make exceptions and will have to mark you as 'no'. We need to provide the venue with a total guest count in a timely manner.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to limited space, we can only accommodate guests who are formally invited. If you've received a plus one, they'll be specifically addressed within the invitation. Otherwise, we ask that only the named people in the invitation are in attendance as there will be no seats available to accommodate people who were not invited.

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What should I do if I can't make it?

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Your presence will be greatly missed! If you are unable to attend, kindly inform us as soon as possible so that we can make the necessary arrangements.

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Is there a dress code?

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Please wear your best formal attire. Our wedding will feature a spring color palette of orange, pink, dusty blue, and lavender for those who want to match the vibe. Gentlemen, think suit and tie or formal button ups with slacks! Ladies, think floor length dresses or cocktail dresses. No sandals, jeans, or casual clothes. Colors to avoid: beige/tan, ivory, and obviously... white.

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Can I take photos/videos during the ceremony?

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No. We kindly request for all phones and cameras to remain silenced and put away until the ceremony concludes. We have a wonderful photographer and videographer who will be capturing our wedding day, and we will be happy to share those photos with you at a later date. Once the ceremony has concluded, feel free to take any photos or videos you would like!

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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

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Please arrive 10 minutes prior to allow for parking or any traffic issues.

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Will there be alcohol?

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Yes! Drinks are on us, however, we only bought a specific amount so please drink respectfully and responsibly.

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Where can I park upon arrival?

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The venue is located within the Rancho Santa Fe community, where most nearby shops and businesses are closed on Sundays. Because of this, the area is typically very quiet, and there is plenty of free street parking available for our guests.