FAQs

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What is the dress code?

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Semi-formal attire. Bridesmaids will be wearing burgundy, so any other color! Dark, mute, and moody colors are encouraged. Black is great! Just remember, if you show up in anything that could be mistaken for a Hawaiian shirt, we may have to send you back to the shadows. Take a look at our Pinterest board for reference here: https://pin.it/4kXQXt95y

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When do I need to RSVP?

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March 29th, 2025 or else we’ll assume you’ve been lured into another event with lesser snacks. We need a final headcount to make sure there’s enough food, drinks, and seats—so don’t leave us guessing, or you might end up eating your dinner standing in the shadows like a mysterious wedding cryptid RSVPs are now closed- if you need to change your status, please contact the bride or groom directly.

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Where is the event?

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The Rengstorff House, a beautifully historic (and possibly haunted) Victorian house. If you hear whispers in the wind, it’s probably just the ghosts giving their blessing… or judging your outfit. Address: 3070 N Shoreline Blvd, Mountain View, CA 94043

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Can I bring my children or a plus one?

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All invited guests will be shown on your RSVP page. Unless your child is a fully trained raven or a bat that perches elegantly on your shoulder, this is an adults-only event. We unfortunately can only have so many guests at our wedding and therefore had to limit our invites.

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Can we take pictures during the wedding?

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During the ceremony, we kindly ask you to keep your phones away and live in the moment (or we’ll summon a ghost to tap your shoulder). After that, snap away!

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Where can I park?

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Good news! We won’t make you summon a demon for a parking spot. We’ll have free on-site parking, so you won’t have to sacrifice your soul to parallel park.

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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It will be outdoors, so dress accordingly—weather and spirits permitting.

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How do I get to the venue?

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For those born in 1970 or later please contact your children for directions. For those born prior to 1970 please contact your grandchildren for directions.

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What are the hours of the wedding?

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The ceremony will start at 4PM. From 11 PM to 2 AM, we’ll be keeping the celebration alive at the afterparty. Pace yourself… or don’t. We fully support your transformation into a nocturnal creature.