No, it's not! Both brides, as well as the wedding party will be dressed in that fashion, but don't feel pressured to participate. We want you to be comfortable on our special day, so if it's a little too out there for you, comfort-wise or money-wise, feel free to come in whatever you feel is appropriate. That includes weather appropriate!
As I'm sure we all know, the end of October can be very nice, rather chilly, or blistering cold, without much warning. The ceremony and reception is at a park; we will be using a shelter so there is some cover from the elements however, it's not much. We will be bringing blankets if they're needed - feel free to bring more if you wish - but definitely keep an eye on the forecasts and dress accordingly! The last thing either of us want is for any of you to be uncomfortable.
If you've been invited to a Pagan Handfasting, then you can be sure that you won't be disrespected. Pagan Weddings are very inclusive, but there will be no assumption that all present are Pagans too. There will be ways to join in, even for those whose own religious beliefs mean that they can't enter the circle. The key will be everyone within their comfort zones. All that you're likely to discover is a huge outpouring of love and good feeling, with the opportunity to know what's going on at all times.
We understand that for the most part people see our wedding day as a day to dress up, have fun, and party. However, this is our wedding. Please respect that, and wear clothes appropriate for it. If you wouldn't wear it to the Renaissance festival, please don't wear it to our wedding. No costumes! Ex. Dracula, werewolves, zombies, vampires, sexy nurses, etc.
Not at all! It's totally not mandatory; we will not get angry with you if you don't bring a gift. We are simply happy you will be celebrating our big day with us. Cards are encouraged, and gifts will be immensely appreciated if you feel you can afford them.
We have decided to go the slightly unconventional route, and we're going to have cheese and meat platters, along with vegetables and other easy to eat snacks like that. If you would like to bring something to go with, feel more than welcome to do so, just let one of us know.