We are officially at 'Fire Marshal' levels of crowded! We love you and we love your people, but we physically cannot fit any more souls in the building without someone sitting on the wedding cake. Unless your plus-one is an invisible ghost or a very small hamster, please stick to the names on the invite.
While we do love your children, we are sticking to a no kids wedding. We simply have too many loved ones and a strict limit from the venue on the amount of people we can invite. This way we can have as many of our people as possible and you get a nice, child-free evening.
Technically there is no dress code. I would just say its not a backyard barbecue. Lets save the jeans for a different occasion