FAQs
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What is the dress code?
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Welcome Dinner: Think elevated casual—a step above everyday wear but still comfortable enough to enjoy the evening. For Women: flowy sundresses, casual midi or maxi dresses, or nice tops with skirts or tailored pants. Wedges, flats, or dressy sandals are great choices—just keep in mind that we’ll be on grass! For Men: chinos or nice slacks with a button-down, polo, or a well-fitted sweater. Loafers or dress shoes/sneakers work well. Wedding Ceremony & Reception: The dress code is semi-formal, meaning we’d love for everyone to dress up! For Women: classic semi-formal attire, including cocktail dresses or summer dresses. We recommend shoes such as wedges, block heels, or flats that can handle grassy or uneven farm terrain. Avoid stilettos. For Men: Suits or dress pants with a button-down and a blazer. Dress shoes or loafers are best—please avoid sneakers or casual sandals. We recommend bringing an extra layer as Maine nights can get a bit chilly. Please be aware that a lot of the wedding weekend will be on grass & gravel.
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Can I bring a guest/my children?
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Your RSVP will include the names of those who are invited. If you have any questions or would like any clarifications, please reach out to us!
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When should I book my travel/lodging?
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ASAP! The surrounding area, especially Camden & Rockland, are very busy in the summer. Please head to our 'Travel' tab to get more details on where to book your stay. We are happy to answer any questions or provide suggestions.
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Is there parking at the venue or any shuttle I can take?
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Yes to both! We will have a shuttle available from the town of Camden (25ish minutes from Tops'l) for those who do not wish to drive themselves.