We love all of your kids but we are going to keep the kids just to our immediate family for the wedding.
Cocktail attire. Avoid heels since there will be a lot of walking on sand and grass.
Parking will be limited. There will be parking on the streets in the neighborhood and down by the actual pond. Our neighbors are aware that we are getting married and to expect the cars. If you live close by look into possibly taking a rideshare.