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❤️🧡💛 Nicholas 💘 Richard 💚💙💜

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What is an Aufruf?

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The term “aufruf” (often pronounced oof-roof or oif-ruf) means “calling up” in Yiddish, and refers to the custom that the groom be called to the Torah in the synagogue on the Shabbat preceding his wedding. As Reform Jews, our Congregation calls up both grooms and brides. A brief blessing and some celebratory words will be shared by the officiant. The aufruf will occupy less than 5 minutes of the regular 60 minute service. An oneg (dessert reception) will follow the service. Business Casual dress is appropriate, gifts are not customary.

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Can I bring my kids?

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Although we love your children, we regretfully cannot accommodate everyone's children at our wedding. If your child is invited, their name will be listed in the RSVP tab. If we are unable to invite them, we hope that you will see this as an opportunity to let your hair down and enjoy the party with us!

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Can I bring a date?

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When you RSVP you will be able to see if you may bring a guest. We tried to tried to accommodate everyone, but space is limited.

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What is Festive Formal Attire?

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Festive formal attire is a fun and colorful spin on formal wear. It's an excuse to wear bright colors and prints to a wedding. So while you should expect to wear something on the fancy side, you can also let your personal style shine through.

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When should I arrive?

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We would love to have you arrive by 4:30, because Richard is punctual and walking down the aisle promptly at 5:00 (and he doesn't need you to escort him).

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Can I take pictures/video during the ceremony?

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We want you to enjoy the ceremony as much as us! Let our photographer take the photos, you save your battery life for the dance moves. Photos and videos are encouraged during cocktail hour and at the reception. Don't forget to share your memories with us at https://weduploader.com/upload/O636WRzmDy1Qf5Qe

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes, because no great love story ever started with a salad.

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What is the venue?

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The Venue in Leawood. The venue is The Venue? Yes, In Leawood. Where in Leawood? The Venue in Leawood.

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