Cocktail Attire: suits and ties for men, dresses or slacks for women. The ceremony is outdoors in a garden, and the reception is inside. Fabulous, colorful, or Western-inspired dress encouraged but by no means required. (Please, no jeans).
We adore our friend's and family's kids, but this is an adults-only event.
As soon as you can is appreciated, but by August 20th is when we ask everyone to let us know if they are attending.
5PM.
https://www.brides.com/jewish-wedding-traditions-4783360 We're not doing all these things, but this gives you an idea.