FAQs
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What should I wear? Is there a dress code?
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The dress code for our wedding is cocktail attire. Think cocktail dresses or a suit and tie or a sports coat
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Can I wear perfume, cologne, or other scents to your wedding?
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Perfumes, cologne, and other strong scents adversely affect the health of many of our guests and members of the wedding party (including the bride!). Therefore, we ask you to kindly forego wearing or applying fragrances on the day of our wedding.
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Are plus-ones and children allowed?
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Unfortunately, we have a strict guest list to stay on budget. Our celebration is strictly RSVP only. We will only be able to accommodate those listed on your wedding invitation. We love your children, but due to space restrictions, we cannot accommodate guests under age 16 on our wedding day.
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When should I RSVP by?
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Let us know if you can make it by May 13, 2026 so we can save you a seat!
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Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?
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Both the ceremony ( St. John the Evangelist) and the reception (The East Wind) will be indoors.
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What should I do if I don't make it into the room block?
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Please see the following website for additional hotel rooms at a discounted rate. https://hotelblocks.zola.com/221203289/EventPage8396199
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What type of food will be served at your wedding?
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There will be meat, fish and vegetarian options
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Will there be meal options for guests with dietary restrictions or allergies?
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Please let your waiter know if you have any dietary restrictions or allergies so they can modify your meal choice accordingly.
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What time will your wedding reception end? Is there an after-party?
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The wedding reception will end at 10:30pm, however, the venue's cash bar Desmond's will be open if you wish to continue to celebrate with us!
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How early can I arrive to the venue?
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Although the cocktail hour at the venue begins at 5:30pm, you may arrive earlier and wait in the venue's cash bar/restaurant Desmond's.
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I still have questions. What is the best way to contact you?
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You can reach us at 631-804-4227 (Nick) or 215-284-5013 (Cynthia)