FAQs

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Why is there multiple dates instead of one?

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Great question! One day is for arrival and to get all settled. One is for the wedding, and the last day is for you to either depart back to the U.S. or wherever you would like.

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Why are we eloping?

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We’re choosing to legally marry in the U.S. before our celebration in Spain to make the paperwork and logistics much simpler. Getting legally married abroad can involve extra documentation, translation requirements, and added stress, and we want our time in Spain to be focused on celebrating with the people we love. This way, our wedding in Spain can be about the experience, the joy, and making memories together rather than dealing with legal details.

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Why Spain?

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We chose Spain because we wanted our wedding to be more than a traditional formal event, we wanted it to be an experience shared with the people we love most. Both sides of our family have members that have wanted to visit Spain (we have also had it at the top of our list), so it felt like the perfect place to bring everyone together. Growing up, we both loved family parties and celebrations, and we wanted our wedding to capture that same spirit: joyful, memorable, and centered around togetherness, good energy, and a great time.

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Where do we stay?

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We will be renting out a villa that fits a large amount of people, as well as a second location that will hold the rest. Right now we have not booked anything but locations have been chosen. We decided to require people to RSVP first before booking as we would like to take care of peoples stay and transportation. I will be working with a travel agent to help organize everything and if you require assistance as well I will have her information linked so that you may work with them as well.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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I really do not care if you want to bring someone else with you as long as you tell me who it is and we approve. Just message one of us and we will talk about it. If you have a spouse, child, or known partner please do not ask if you can bring them. Assume you can. For many of you I have already factored in children (even the unborn ones) and possible plus ones. Just make sure to RSVP them as well please.

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Do I have to stay in the places that will be booked?

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Nope. If you prefer to stay with a group of people or on your own please let us know when you RSVP. This is important for us to know so we know what to book and such. We will be assigning who stays where based on multiple factors and who we know would want to stay together.

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Is there a wedding party (bridesmaid & groomsmen)?

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Nope : ) We did not like the idea of having a wedding party.

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What is the dress code?

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Fanciest outfit you can think of. Please do notttttt dress casual at alllll.

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When is the elopement?

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Those who will not be going to Spain are invited to come to our elopement. It will be the month before our wedding. I will post the info when it is decided :)

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WEDDING COLORS:

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Pomegranate Red Olive Green Light Pink

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Wedding Description:

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I would like to clarify this will not be a traditional wedding. It will be more of a party/celebration. We will of course do some normal wedding things and have the reception, but other than that we just want to have fun. We are so excited!

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“My invite says RSVP by June 1😭”

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I was too lazy to change it. Just ignore it plz 🥰 just do it eventually plz

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If I RSVP do I have to buy my tickets and such now???

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No. Do it whenever is convenient to you. Or we have our lovely travel agent Joni! We are still working on stays and such but if you intend to stay in Europe longer than our wedding dates I highly suggest working with her to help you plan your trip! https://journeywithjoni.com/?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZnRzaASgPfxleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA8xMjQwMjQ1NzQyODc0MTQAAacARfWmuUBfnXb15FQY0ZDsJg2vGVzxgP40_unbbBsuKZiGZEt7rI8ZBbUFrg_aem_PBA6ZIlNfigqaJCM97ui-w INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/journeywithjoni?igsh=MWFnOGlsZnh2OXZodQ==