FAQsFAQs

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Where is it?Where is it?

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Both the ceremony and reception will be at ElmRock Inn, Stone Ridge, NY.

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When should I Rsvp by?When should I Rsvp by?

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August 11, 2025. Thanks for checking!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive by 4pm. The ceremony will begin at 4:30pm. Late guests will be shamed and spanked by the Officiant, Miriam Leo, at the reception.

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Is there a dress code?Is there a dress code?

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This is your time to shine! Formal is fine but we invite you to take the opportunity to get all dolled up. Gowns, tuxedos, the expensive makeup you never let yourself wear, the funky tie you love but can't seem to find the right occasion for. We want everyone to feel beautiful and comfortable!

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Can I bring a date?Can I bring a date?

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Hell no! If you have an extra guest invite (plus 1) it will be noted on your invitation. However, please reach out to us if you have any questions or if there is someone who you want or need to bring.

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Are kids welcome?Are kids welcome?

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This one is just for the grown-ups, sorry kiddos!

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Will there be a Rehearsal Dinner?Will there be a Rehearsal Dinner?

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Kinda, sorta, not really! We're keeping it casual and aren't planning on anything too rehearsed. However, we invite everyone to join us for dinner, drinks, and dancing on Friday night at Darlings Roadhouse, dinner is on us! Please visit the **Friday Night** tab on this website for more info!

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Is there parking?Is there parking?

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Yes! There is plenty of parking available at the venue.

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Will I be able to smoke?Will I be able to smoke?

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Nope! There is a strict no smoking/no drugs policy at our venue.

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What about booze?What about booze?

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Don't worry, ya filthy animals! There will be an open bar with beer and wine at the reception.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes, we'll check with everyone in the weeks leading up to the event. But please, if you have a severe allergy, or dietary restriction, let us know as soon as possible.