Chad and Nedum had their first date in a Christmas-themed New Orleans bar called Snake n' Jakes. When Nedum first suggested it as one of her favorite bars, she had no idea that Chad had already visited it with his family when he first moved to the city. In fact, several months before the couple ever met, Chad's mom had written a message in the bathroom that read "Take care of Chad, Nola". And the rest was history!