No, we both grew up with the sense of "when you know, you know" and with the enlistment soon we both knew now was the time.
We had a ceremony on December 27th, 2025, to include family from out of town. It is legal as of 02/14/2026.
Short answer, we wanted this to be intimate, personal, judgment free, and surrounded by family.
The plan is to (hopefully, career willing) plan a big wedding to invite everyone to in a year or so.