Be comfortable! We already had our (most definitely black tie) wedding - we want the reception to be laid back. Casual, dressy casual, to the nines... follow your heart.
We love your kids! They're welcome to come. Explore Park is a big, open place that's great for running around. However, if you'd rather have a date night and get a babysitter (because Explore Park is a big, open place that's great for running around), we get it.