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September 30, 2022
Kansas City, Mo
#NateGetstheJackPot

Nate & Jack

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Meet our family and friends who are walking with us down the aisle.

Marah Kolenda

Best Woman

Twelve years ago, Marah and Nate met in college. They went out for a drink on St. Patrick's day with some friends, and that kicked started their friendship. They graduated college together, have supported each other through life's ups and downs, and have been there for one another every step of the way.


Elora Murphy

Best Woman

Elora and Jack met in their first year of high school 16 years ago. They instantly became friends after Jack became her personal radio in class since the teachers were not as entertaining as him. They continued to bond over dill pickle chips, wine, Will and Grace, Just Dance, and singing Disney songs through drive-through windows. Even across the country, they always make time for each other.

JD Lichte

Groomsman

JD is Nate's little bro; they have been kickin' it since birth. Their interest may be very different, but JD has always had Nate's back and has always been there for a guaranteed laugh. It doesn't matter what is going on. JD can always crack a joke and get the laughter going.


Joel Farrell

Groomsman

Joel is Jack's older brother and hasn't been able to get away from him for 30 years. Jack has come to grips with it because it turns out his bro is pretty cool and has a lot of experience and knowledge to give. Not to mention the father of his two nephews, so he's worth keeping around.

Shelby Stanyan

Groomswoman

Shelby is Nate's cousin; they became extremely close when they shared an apartment. After multiple bottles of wine, lots of cheesy tv shows, and eating their way through five dozen eggs. They are partners in crime at a wine tasting.


Jamie Farrell

Groomswoman

Jamie and Jack practically did everything together growing up. Not sure if Jamie wanted that, but that's what happened. Jack tagged along everywhere Jamie went like a shadow. Jack attended Jamie's games and was the loudest fan screaming their team chants from the bench. Years later, she is always guiding him and being a role model every step of the way.

Justin Kolenda

Groomsman

Justin and Nate met through Marah when Marah started dating Justin. At first, Nate and Justin's friendship was rocky because no one was good enough for Marah. But Justin and Nate soon became close friends over their shared love for whiskey, food, and game nights. Together they have survived many of Marah and Jack's laugh attacks, endless game nights of Marah and Jack cheating, and significant milestones.


Daniel Jacobs

Groomsman

Daniel and Jack met 10 years ago at H&M. Daniel was his trainer for a day and then pawned him off to another trainer. He clearly needed a break from Jack's antics. They grew extremely close while working together and were roommates for a brief period which made their bond even stronger. So many movie nights, car rides, concerts, travels, and inside jokes to last a lifetime.

Cynthia Malone

Groomswoman

Nate and Cynthia met through their mutual friend, Marco, six years ago. To this day, Marco may still regret introducing them. The two quickly bonded over their shared love and passion for culinary experiences. They started a Sunday supper club, have done catering events together, and always enjoy a trip to Farina.


Maria Scorfina

Groomswoman

10 years ago, Maria hired Jack because she knew he was fabulous. Since their days at H&M, she has really become a part of Jack's life and made a point to stay in it. There have been countless 2+ hour phone conversations just to catch up and check in to see how life is. Through all life's ups and downs, they have supported each other every step of the way.

Cameron Decker

Groomsman

Cam is Nate's cousin. They grew up together playing power rangers on the Sega Genesis and sharing waffles in the morning. To this day, they still force Aunt Lynn (Nate's Mom) to make waffles and have grown even closer through life's ups and downs and countless family game nights.


Alex Werner

Groomsman

Jack met Alex back in 2014 and the rest is history. They quickly became close friends while sharing countless jam sessions in the car, video games, pumpkin carvings, masquerade balls, endless coffee runs, and much more memories to look back on. Alex has been there as a soundboard for Jack and has been a genuine friend since day one.

Sara Farrell

Groomswoman

Sara is Nate's soon to be Sister in law. She was the first member of Jack's family Nate met. He was so nervous about meeting Jack's family. When he found out that Sara had a master's in psychology, he was fully prepared to be hit with all her questions. But Sara and Nate just clicked and bonded over board games, cocktails, and food.


Kelley Veytia

Groomswoman

Kelley and Jack met during their stint at H&M in 2016. They hit it off while working together and became close friends shortly after. They bonded over late-night talks with wine, dinner, and bonfires. Kelley has been one of the most consistent and heartfelt friends Jack has met since moving to KC. She is always there when you need her.

Alan Baer

Usher

Alan was the first to take Jack in when he first moved to KC in 2016 before he had a place to stay. When Jack finally got his own place to stay, they continued to deepen their friendship even to this day. They have enjoyed countless dinner parties, masked singer episodes, double date nights out, and much more. Since becoming friends, Alan has always been a huge part of Nate and Jack's lives and is someone they can always count on.


Jason Farrell

Usher

Jason is Jack's oldest brother and unfortunately got all the height in the family. There still might be some grudges with how Jack was picked on as a kid by his bigger brothers, but we will sweep that under the rug for now. No matter their past, Jason is as kind as can be and always knows how to be a great big brother. He is someone who always shows his genuine, heartfelt, and caring heart.

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