Feel free to go all out! Our desire is for a more formal affair. We'd love to see you in tuxedos and evening gowns but we understand this can be quite an investment, especially in the warm month of August! Men can opt for a tuxedo or dark suit, and women can choose either a formal evening gown, a shorter more formal cocktail dress, or dressy separates. This article has a little more detail if you'd like! https://www.vogue.com/slideshow/dear-alex-black-tie-optional-wedding-dress-code