FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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We have not yet sent out formal invitations, but if you already know that you have prior commitments, please let us know as soon as possible! We have invited a lot of out of town family, and would love to start narrowing down on a number as soon as we can. Please officially RSVP no later than June 1st, 2026.

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Is there a dress code?

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Please arrive in cocktail attire. Don't forget your dancing shoes! Since the wedding is in July in San Diego, plan for warm weather even as night falls. The ceremony and reception will be held outdoors.

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your kids, but thought you might enjoy a night off. Adults only please!

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Can I bring a date?

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Due to limited space at our venue, we may not be able to accomodate everyone's dates (although we certainly wish we could!). We will be clear on our invitations who is included on the guest list. If you would like to know about +1s before invitations are sent out, please contact us.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes! We recommend staying in Downtown Oceanside. There are plenty of hotels, Airbnbs, and VRBOs for a range of budgets. Please see the Travel tab above for more specific recommendations

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Cheers to the newlyweds!

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Drinks are on us! We kindly ask that you drink responsibly and plan ahead—whether that means a designated driver, Uber, or Lyft. We want everyone to have a wonderful time and get home safely!

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Are you registered? Where?

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Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we can ask for! However, if you choose to honor us with a gift, we are registered through Zola, and you can find it by navigating to the Registry tab on this website