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FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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The sooner, the better! We kindly request RSVPs by March 9, 2026. Our wedding date will also be the last day of graduations at Texas A&M, so please RSVP early to help us handle travel accommodations and vendor planning.

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What is the dress code?

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This will be a black-tie evening. We kindly ask our guests to dress in formal attire, keeping in mind the sacredness of the Catholic Mass. Men are encouraged to wear tuxedos or suits. Women may choose a formal long or midi dress. In respect for the Mass, we ask for attire that reflects modesty and reverence, avoiding revealing or casual clothing. For this reason, we ask that you refrain from wearing jeans. Your consideration is deeply appreciated.

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Can I bring a date?

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Due to venue capacity restrictions, we’re unable to accommodate additional guests. We kindly ask that you refrain from bringing a plus one unless it’s indicated on your invitation. Thank you so much for your understanding!

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Are children invited?

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This will be an adults-only celebration unless otherwise noted on your invitation! We understand this may pose a challenge and truly appreciate your understanding. Please contact us if you have any questions. Thank you!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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We kindly request that you arrive at the ceremony by 1:40 PM to allow time for parking, finding your seat, and joining us in prayer before the Mass begins. The Mass will start promptly at 2 PM. We will have a guided rosary starting at 1:30PM, we would love for you to join asking for Mary's intercession for us on this special day!

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This is a Catholic wedding, but I am not Catholic. What can I expect?

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The Catholic Mass is the celebration of the Eucharist, where the Church re-presents the one eternal sacrifice of Jesus Christ on the cross. It is not a repetition of Christ’s death, as He died once for all, but a way for believers to join in that single, timeless act of love and redemption. At the Last Supper, Jesus instituted the Eucharist, asking His followers to “do this in remembrance of me.” In the Mass, this command is fulfilled as bread and wine are consecrated to become His Body and Blood. The Eucharist is a sacrament, an action instituted by Jesus while he was on Earth, which bestows specific graces through physical means. This sacrament allows believers to share in the fruits of Christ’s death and resurrection, offering a memorial that is both symbolic and real. The Mass is more than a commemorative meal; it is a living participation in Christ’s eternal offering to the Father. Under the appearance of bread and wine, Christ's Body and Blood become truly present on the altar. Jesus, through the hands of the priest, presents again his single sacrifice, unbloodily, to the Father on behalf of the faithful. By participating in the Mass, Catholics join with Christ, offering themselves as a living sacrifice and receiving the spiritual nourishment of His body and blood. This profound mystery incorporates believers into the Body of Christ, both spiritually and physically. We believe the ultimate showing of love was when Jesus gave His life for us on the Cross, and when he gave us His Body at the Last Supper. The Catholic Mass is how we worship the Lord who loved us so much he died for us. We are so excited to welcome you into St. Mary’s for our wedding Mass! If you’re still curious, don’t hesitate to reach out to us!