Hi everyone! Since we're not doing a full ceremony and reception for our wedding, we completely understand if flying you and your family to NJ isn't in the budget this year! Please don't feel obligated to travel for a 3-hour party if it isn't doable. Traveling is so expensive and time-consuming (especially with kiddos). We completely understand and we know you'll be celebrating with us in spirit! All our love - Chels & Chris