Schedule

Welcome BBQ, Bingo & Speeches

6:00 pm

Casual Dress- If you feel like dressing up, this calls for western hoedown chic! https://pin.it/5QdsDQxOJ

We will have a BBQ buffet dinner (think hamburgers, hot dogs, veggie burgers), listen to great music, and play Bingo. We also plan to have an open mic for speeches, so work on your tight 5 if you want to share your excitement for our wedding!

Friday Sleepover

8:00 pm

Are you staying at Ashokan Friday Night? We'd love to have you! We still have rooms available! Please let us know ASAP if you are interested in staying! Longhouse bunk (12 bunk beds in wing): $75/person/night (shared bathroom) Cabins (5) : 2 with queen beds, 3 with 2 twins each: $185/ cabin/night (shared bathroom) Camping per night (bathhouse available): $16/person (no linens)

Lawn Games & Getting to Know Each Other

10:30 am - 2:30 pm

Pack your lawn chairs! We are going to have a variety of lawn games and time to explore the beautiful grounds as we mingle and enjoy the day!

Grab Your Lunch (To-Go)

1:00 pm - 2:00 pm

Lunch is ready for pick up as we prepare for the main event! We are having wraps and chips!

Getting Ready Time

2:30 pm - 4:30 pm

Time to get ready! We cannot wait to see how good you look!

Family Photos

3:30 pm - 4:30 pm

During this window, we will take photos with our immediate family (think cousins, aunts, uncles, parents, and all of those siblings we get to share!)

Head to the Ceremony

4:30 pm - 4:50 pm

Ceremony

5:00 pm

Festive Dress (we will be walking outside so be thoughtful of your footwear, steep areas) https://pin.it/nRrPNliPu

Festive Dress: https://www.brides.com/festive-wedding-guest-attire-6361569 "Festive attire is a fun and colorful spin on semi-formal wear," says bridal stylist Erika Plackowski. "It's an excuse to wear bright colors and prints to a wedding." Wedding planner Lara Mahler adds, "Guests are encouraged to have fun and play with their look with bold colors and accessories." Our event is vibrant and disco-themed, and we would love for you to dress up and have fun with that theme! It's the reason for the season! Join us and our fantastic officiant and dear friend, Henry Butterworth, as we tie the knot!

Cocktail Time & Photos with Friends

5:30 pm - 7:30 pm

Let the celebration begin! Photos with Friends: We will use a " step-and-repeat" photo setup to take fabulous pictures with our guests. Look forward to your chance to join us for a picture! Let's Eat!- We are doing a "cocktail style" reception! A cocktail-style wedding reception promotes a more relaxed and informal atmosphere, allowing guests to mingle and interact freely- our dream come true! We will enjoy a variety of delicious bites and drinks together rather than a "sit-down" dinner! Menu Highlights- Chicken Skewers, Mustard Salmon, Steak Sliders, Tomato and Caper Shrimp, BBQ Tempeh, Roasted Vegetables and Dip, Delicious Potato Bites, and more! And for dessert? Ice Cream and Brownies! Wait until you see the flavors!

Let's Dance!

7:30 pm - 10:00 pm

It's time to hit the dance floor! There are plenty of places to chill and take in the evening (we recommend checking out the loft), and if you are looking for Amanda, check out the dance floor!

After Party (Dance the Night Away)

10:00 pm - 10:00 pm

After the party is the after-party! We'll see you on the dance floor to continue the good times, great tunes, and great vibes! At 11 we will be ready to chill, This is where you'll need to tap into your festival endurance! Feel free to wear your cozy festival finest as we settle in for the night! Mood Board: https://www.pinterest.com/?boardId=151504043653939178

Post Wedding Snooze

11:30 pm

Are You Crashing at Ashokan after the Wedding? We'd love to have you! We still have rooms available! Please let us know ASAP if you are interested in staying! Longhouse bunk (12 bunk beds in wing): $75/person/night (shared bathroom) Cabins (5) : 2 with queen beds, 3 with 2 twins each: $185/ cabin/night (shared bathroom) Camping per night (bathhouse available): $16/person (no linens)